I've been physically challenged for over 10 years.
I know about the SS.
some are good some are rubbish.
my current Social Worker seems OK.
I've experience of Social Workers and reviews.
I've experience of OT's.
I've experience of MP's.
I've experience of celebraties
I've experience of life if you have no family to support you.
I've experience of being homeless.
I've experience of being financially well off, almost very rich.
I've experience of losing everything.
I've experience of financal hardship.
I've experience of living with people with learning disabilities.
I've experience of people/family/kids dying. (you really DONT want to know)
I've experience of The Disability discrimination act's of 2002 & have my own copy.
I've experience of the Law of Human Rights & have my own copy. (it's more useful than the disability acts BTW).
I've experience of being a single parent bringing up a teenager when I'm the one physically challenged.
I've experience of a lot of other stuff too. I've even burned a boiled egg once! (go on SMILE I know it's not a good joke even if it was spelt with a Y!)
Life is an adventure, your travelling through every emotion you think you cannot bear; to all the wonderful momments you want to last forever.
It is important to not let go.
because by dealing with the hard bad stuff you become stronger. & you become who you are.
& who you are, is a combination of many things:
Sometimes the role model others see you as.
Sometimes the person who brings joy to another.
Sometimes the person who helps someone else find thier own strengths.
(like maybe? when you were first debilitated your needing to rely on some person around you, actually helped this person realize they were important; & by relying on them, when you needed someone to support you, you made thier life a better quality of self-worth).
yes,
what I've been through may sound bad to you.
It is niether good nor bad. just experiences.
& with each experience life throws at us; it is our choices of how we handle them.
in a nutshell:
when everything goes "pear-shaped" it's just another part of your personal lifes' adventures.
Explain:
The word "adventure" does not mean "fun & safe"
that's why you can die from "miss-adventure"
your now disabled.
you've experienced the "miss-adventure"
you're lifes' changed forever.
you could so easily have died at that momment....
only you didn't! you survived.
your still here, so it's not time for you to die, although you had the miss-adventure.
your here because your a surviver!
I'm here because I'm a surviver!
& I'm happy right now because I just purchased another new oven.
although no one will install my lovely hob's because to do so would be dangerous where the tw*t's left a work surface for
"The disabled one".
so instead of saying Wow that's bad have you heard about the social services?
how about saying
"wow! tough call,
so, how d'you get around that problem?
what have you already tried?"
I can then say:
"yes it's just a tough call, but I'm dealing with it.
I've got around the problem so far by making sure everyone from the Council who've let me down, know I've recorded all thier conversations.
When they turn around & say "It's illegal for me to do so."
I already know the law about it.
I reply
"I informed you already I record every conversation I'll be having with you & this is recorded on the first conversation we had.
I am recording you not for trainning purposes only.
This is my home. My private dwelling.
I have noone to whittness what you said.
My recording can be used to prove the accuracy of the agreements we reached so there can be no arguements about it.
If I feel you need re-training then I'll send my recordings to the relevant bodies."
you see, they don't know exactly what they've said.
because I'm alone, & disabled they've tried it on.
They tried to screw both the Tax payers via claiming the grants for work not done. & me by not doing the work.
I'm living inside a house of evidence of thier neglect.
So right now, they are worried.
My home WILL be correctly repaired.
I gave them ample time to do the repairs.
Both BBC & the MP were informed back in 2004 as to the state of my home.
Now I've taken the gloves off!
Is there anything else you feel I might have missed?
What's one of or your almost worst experience?
(I don't ask about your most worst experience, because whilst it's the worst then you may still dealing with it).
Quote:
Also, are you in touch with your local Disability Information Network - they'd be good to talk too as well. Should be able to direct you towards further sources of help for anything else that you're finding tough... try http://www.diss.org.uk/ or http://www.ldicn.org.uk/
don't know what to think about them...
have you ever had dealings with either of them?
I know about the SS.
some are good some are rubbish.
my current Social Worker seems OK.
I've experience of Social Workers and reviews.
I've experience of OT's.
I've experience of MP's.
I've experience of celebraties
I've experience of life if you have no family to support you.
I've experience of being homeless.
I've experience of being financially well off, almost very rich.
I've experience of losing everything.
I've experience of financal hardship.
I've experience of living with people with learning disabilities.
I've experience of people/family/kids dying. (you really DONT want to know)
I've experience of The Disability discrimination act's of 2002 & have my own copy.
I've experience of the Law of Human Rights & have my own copy. (it's more useful than the disability acts BTW).
I've experience of being a single parent bringing up a teenager when I'm the one physically challenged.
I've experience of a lot of other stuff too. I've even burned a boiled egg once! (go on SMILE I know it's not a good joke even if it was spelt with a Y!)
Life is an adventure, your travelling through every emotion you think you cannot bear; to all the wonderful momments you want to last forever.
It is important to not let go.
because by dealing with the hard bad stuff you become stronger. & you become who you are.
& who you are, is a combination of many things:
Sometimes the role model others see you as.
Sometimes the person who brings joy to another.
Sometimes the person who helps someone else find thier own strengths.
(like maybe? when you were first debilitated your needing to rely on some person around you, actually helped this person realize they were important; & by relying on them, when you needed someone to support you, you made thier life a better quality of self-worth).
yes,
what I've been through may sound bad to you.
It is niether good nor bad. just experiences.
& with each experience life throws at us; it is our choices of how we handle them.
in a nutshell:
when everything goes "pear-shaped" it's just another part of your personal lifes' adventures.
Explain:
The word "adventure" does not mean "fun & safe"
that's why you can die from "miss-adventure"
your now disabled.
you've experienced the "miss-adventure"
you're lifes' changed forever.
you could so easily have died at that momment....
only you didn't! you survived.
your still here, so it's not time for you to die, although you had the miss-adventure.
your here because your a surviver!
I'm here because I'm a surviver!
& I'm happy right now because I just purchased another new oven.
although no one will install my lovely hob's because to do so would be dangerous where the tw*t's left a work surface for
"The disabled one".
so instead of saying Wow that's bad have you heard about the social services?
how about saying
"wow! tough call,
so, how d'you get around that problem?
what have you already tried?"
I can then say:
"yes it's just a tough call, but I'm dealing with it.
I've got around the problem so far by making sure everyone from the Council who've let me down, know I've recorded all thier conversations.
When they turn around & say "It's illegal for me to do so."
I already know the law about it.
I reply
"I informed you already I record every conversation I'll be having with you & this is recorded on the first conversation we had.
I am recording you not for trainning purposes only.
This is my home. My private dwelling.
I have noone to whittness what you said.
My recording can be used to prove the accuracy of the agreements we reached so there can be no arguements about it.
If I feel you need re-training then I'll send my recordings to the relevant bodies."
you see, they don't know exactly what they've said.
because I'm alone, & disabled they've tried it on.
They tried to screw both the Tax payers via claiming the grants for work not done. & me by not doing the work.
I'm living inside a house of evidence of thier neglect.
So right now, they are worried.
My home WILL be correctly repaired.
I gave them ample time to do the repairs.
Both BBC & the MP were informed back in 2004 as to the state of my home.
Now I've taken the gloves off!
Is there anything else you feel I might have missed?
What's one of or your almost worst experience?
(I don't ask about your most worst experience, because whilst it's the worst then you may still dealing with it).
Quote:
Also, are you in touch with your local Disability Information Network - they'd be good to talk too as well. Should be able to direct you towards further sources of help for anything else that you're finding tough... try http://www.diss.org.uk/ or http://www.ldicn.org.uk/
don't know what to think about them...
have you ever had dealings with either of them?